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Entries Tagged as 'framing'
Doing the best you can when you are not at your best
November 14th, 2020 · Comments
Tags: mindset · anxiety · framing · coaching · direction
Look at Halloween through NLP eyes
October 30th, 2020 · Comments
What does NLP allow us to see happening at this scary time of year? Look at how Halloween reveals the best way to approach our deep fears and find the resources to deal with them.
Tags: language · resource · mindset · anxiety · focus · framing
What you pay attention to will grow
August 1st, 2020 · Comments
It's the kernel of truth at the core of the law of attraction. Whatever you give your attention becomes more available as a pattern to use while interpreting situations. What you give your attention to will grow. It doesn't mean to expect goals without work. It means you can prime yourself to notice opportunity.
Tags: Motivation · nlp · mindset · focus · goal · framing
What thinking inside the box can mean for you
July 1st, 2018 · Comments
When you're stuck, it can feel like the walls are closing in on you. There's not enough room to move and no good options. You want to think outside the box, but all you can see or feel is the box.
Let Linda guide you through an experience that will change the way you experience the box and it's place in the world. Thinking inside the box is more fun - and more productive - than you might expect.
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Tags: DefaultTag · Fresh Thinking · goal · framing
An Introduction to Strategic Communication
February 10th, 2018 · Comments
Take about 20 minutes to walk through the basics of strategic communication. Learn how communication works automatically and how wanting something specific changes that. Explore why communication is always a part of how make positive change happen. Discover the three keys to being more strategic: 1) know what you want; 2) know what you have in common; 3) know what you don't know. And then walk through the core strategy for involving other people in making the change you want to see happen.
Tags: language · communication · influence · framing · strategy · leadership
Take the sting out of failure so you can grow
September 29th, 2016 · Comments
I bet you've failed at something, and I bet you hated the experience. When we think of our failures, they can sting, even years after they happened. That sting gets in our way: it stops us from pushing past limits and learning and trying new things.
Avoiding failure is a bad plan; it's impossible most of the time and even when you think it's working, you are limiting yourself to what you already know and what you can already do. A better plan is to approach failure with grit: the combination of purpose and perseverance that allows you to genuinely experience each failure as one more step toward solving a problem or reaching an achievement.
This exercise takes just 6 minutes to reframe your failure and open up new possibilities.
Tags: Fresh Thinking · framing · failure · grit
Suggestions can be more powerful than commands
July 22nd, 2016 · Comments
Listen to this episode to discover how easily you are led to accept ideas that come from a trusted source in a relationship you value. Whether you are making or taking suggestions, it's appropriate to also take a deep breath and ask yourself: is this really what I want? how much of this motivation is a desire to stay connected? what else do I want now?
Tags: · DefaultTag · communication · framing
Spot the frames when someone else is speaking or writing
June 24th, 2016 · Comments
Take ten minutes to get better at noticing the structure which is setting you up to interpret a communication in a particular way. Structure is inevitable: it's how language works. When a structure is embedded into a communication, it is as hard to notice as the bone structure of a human being. You might not think about it consciously, but you notice the shape it gives your thinking and you use it to interpret the details.
This is a simple (but not easy) three step method for getting better at spotting frames in communication that you hear or read. Following this process will make you quicker to see the implications or consequences of buying into what someone is saying and it will give you more choices about how to interpret the information being shaped by the frames.
Photo credit: Les Chatfield, https://www.flickr.com/photos/elsie/
Tags: communication · framing
